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i lvoe him.. he loves her
age:14
gender:female
I think im in love with one of my best friends boyfreinds.. you see im extremely close to him and we talk all the time .. She treats him very very bad and he still loves her and i dont understand why.. It kills me to hear him tlell me how much he loves her but i dont want to losee him . i just idno im not the prettiest or skinniest girtl and i dont think i would ever have a chance with him .. plus hes head over heels for her but idont think she lovs him back..i dont know what to do
help please!
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First off, it should never matter how skinny or pretty you are. It should matter what's on the inside. You should never feel "not good enough" because of your looks or weight.
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On to the problem. Talk to your best friend. Find out how she feels about him. Don't assume you know her feelings towards him because the only one that knows her feelings is her. So bring it up, ask her if she really cares about him as much as he likes her. Going from that. IF she likes him the same as he likes her, there's nothing you can do. You can try and talk to him about how she treats him. Try and convence him that he diserves better, but thats not a gerntee (spelling). You could even try and get her to treat him better. Tell her that you don't feel like shes treating him the way he sould be treated. However IF she doesn't feel the same way about him, as he does her. You should talk to her and tell her that shes leading him on. That it's not right. If her feelings for him arnt strong or there at all or she just doesn't plain care about him, he should know and she should tell him. If you wanted to be semi-backstabbing (not suggesting) you could tell him how she feels about him. Maybe he will relize that she's not good for him, and that he should have someone that treats him right. That doesn't mean however that he will go for you, but what you should want is for your guy friend to be in a happy relationship and not one where he is treated unfairly.
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You could also tell him you like him. That it hurts you to see him hurt and that you think he diserves better. No harm in telling him how you feel about him. You're 14.. you can't help how or who you have towards, your best friend (girl) might get upset, but she should understand she can't treat him like that.
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Long I know, and I'm sorry if it didn't help much. You can send another into the inbox or IM me : ilu x adoreme
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