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trio dejenaro.. lol a triangular mess
this is crazy i knw..... i met this guy who considered me one of his best friends. we hung out all the time and did everything couples do together with out the kissing/makingout/sex part. we held hands hugged at one point walked with his shoulder around me and stuff.......
i thought he was gay so i never really considered that there would be anything there...
later though about 7 or 8 months after we met and right be4 we went our separate since he graduated (he's 22 i am 20).... i told him the truth about how in that past month i was a bit infatuated by him..... very very to say the least...... at somepoint i had doubts about him being bi... because his signs of flirting are always direct with both men and women.... and i figured since we're always together and he hasnt sed anything then maybe he was just gay.... anyway .... wen i told him i told him rite after that i hope this dsnt change or alter our friendship he said he was completly fine with and we even went out that night...
a month later:
i still like him a bit since he was honestly the funnest guy i'd been with.... plus he always makes me feel assured about myself....... but its summer and i am abroad and i met this other guy very very formally... and there may be sparks in the middle... i am still not sure i'm going to have to get to knw him.....he's cute and all but the problem is that i still keep thinking about the other guy since i feel its not over yet and since he has been IMing me constantly asking about this new guy.... he sounds pissed and he always says he'd "save " me and misses me and that he wants to elope with me and things..... i miss him too but i don't know what he's trying to get to....
i never asked hiim about his sexuality and i think its stupid to do so now.... what do i do?!
i just need ppls opinions on this situation...
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im going through the same kind of situation right now. my best friend holds hands with me and puts his arm around my shoulder like couples do. he doesnt like me though. and everyone assumes he is gay or bi and im not sure if he is because he told me he was confused at first but now hes not anymore. the only thing you can do is ask him if he likes you. if he says he doesnt then you have to move on because if he doesnt then he most likely is gay. most guy girl best friend situations dont involve this much flirting. but gay guys show a lot of affection to girls because they feel more comfortable around them. so just ask him. hope it goes well. if you need anything im here for you...
SAM
hey. ok a good way to ask him or find out if he likes you is by just asking him if he likes you. tell him it kinda seems like he does and say other people have noticed it too. if he says no then just say "oh i dont like you like that either, but i just wanted to know if you do." and of course if he says yes then you can tell him how you feel. i suggest not getting your friends too involved because they can make things more complicated. that was my mistake, it turned into the talk of the school! well good luck and anything you need leave me a message in my inbox
SAM
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ignore the sexuality thing; does he like you? just ask him that!!
charming girl
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I would ask him how he feels about you. Deffinitly try to stay away from the orientation thing...because, he might get upset with you if he isnt gay or bi. Maybe he does have feelings for you but he is confused about his sexuality. Hope I helped! Happy Summer!
As to your feedback, I'm not sure if this will work for you too see, but hopefully you'll get it. You just need to sit him down and ask him whats the deal, does he like you for real, or s he just into messing with peoples emotions. Hope I helped, I'm sure it'll be fine!!!
-Brina
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