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What Do I Do Now?
Im 14/F
Ok well yesterday I was at a relay to raise money for cancer. I knew 3 people there Emily (my bff), Bradley (guy friend) and Kurtis (bradleys brother). There were 11 people on our team. Around 1am we got bored/tired and we brought out the sleeping bags. Bradley lay in the corner of the tent, and then Me, Emily and Kurtis layed together. (We did in a row Me-Kurtis-Emily) We talked and everything but then this guy named Tanyr came in. He layed down beside me and we talked and somewhat flirted. Then Kurtis left so he took Kurtis's spot. Then my friend Emily tried to take the blankets and I ended up with a very small amount and the only way i could get it over my body (i was cold) was if I was right up against Tanyr. During the 7 hours we layed beside eachother alot of things went on and now I like him alot. Here are some of the things that happened between me and Tanyr:
-he kept putting his arm around me
-i got pulled closer to him and he smiled and was like this is nice
-he kept asking questions about me
-we shoved eachother at some points
-when someone said he was gonna lay beside me he was like Stay Away From Her and pulled me close to him
-We listenned to Promiscous (by Nelly Furtado) on someones Mp3 and he sang the boy parts and I sang the girl parts
-We cuddeled
-He asked me if I was single and then he said how he was
-He touched my leg
-He said my hair smelt nice (i was touching his head cause its like shaved and feels weird so he felt mine and was like "ur hair smells nice")
There is two main problems though. He is in grade 10 right now and im in grade 8. i know ill be in highschool in a few months but still its a big enough age difference. Also I dont have his msn. Do you think he even liked me or was it just a one night thing?
Oh yea he kept saying it sucked that I was in grade 8 cause he hoped I wasnt feeling uncomfortable because he was hitting on me. (i am not sleezy or slutty in any way)
What should I do now?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Perhaps he is genuinely attracted to you and genuinely concerned about the age differences. However, be very cautious if you want to continue to have a friendship with this guy because he may not be that genuine.
If he knows where you live or go to school, he may well get in touch with you. If he does, all well and good, if not, put that night down to a pleasant experience.
If you do meet, I suggest that you take things very, very slowly and continue to chat to him and perhaps go for a coffee or lunch or something during the daytime. Don't be rushed into anything you might regret and enjoy the new experiences that will come with getting to know someone. I truly hope that he is the gentleman he was portraying to you that night and I hope that it all goes well with you. Good luck.
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