Gettin back at a friends but it comes to a nightmare
Question Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 5:10 pm
okay so it started out with this girl danielle that i was really good friends with. she started randomly hating me and we weren't really talking a lot. she would exclude me a lot and it would hurt. she started rumors about to of my friends liking people that they don't like. so the three of us got really mad at her and we wanted to tell people something true but surprising about her. it was who she likes but she likes a lot of guys. one of my friends wanted to tell everybody but i only told 3 people. someone told her how it was gross that she liked him and she quickly assumed everything like starting it was me. now she is probably going to do something really bad to hurt me again. really right now she just says oh no one likes u and all that crap. i feel really bad that i did that but if i applogise then we obviously aren't going to become friends again but idk what to do.
P.S. i don't want her to start a rumor about who i like because she knows who i like from when we were friends.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Jeanne answered Thursday May 31 2007, 8:08 pm: If you truly feel bad about telling her secret, then tell her so. You could send her a note or message saying something like, "I know we've had some problems lately, but I just want you to know that I'm sorry for telling someone who you like. I shouldn't have done that and I feel really bad about it." That's all you have to say. Don't make excuses or say "I did it because you did so and so...". Just apologize and go from there. She may stay mad at you, but she's already mad anyway, and apologizing will make you feel better. [ Jeanne's advice column | Ask Jeanne A Question ]
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