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hey christine!! can you give me your honest opinion? what do you think i should do about this? dont worry about being harsh.
im 13/F btw. my boyfriends also 13.
we've been going out for Å month. but its our 3rd time dating. out first time was Å year ago. so i know him really well. the first time we went out i didnt know or like him. but iwanted Å boyfriend. which was fine because he just wanted Å girlfriend. we broke up because he met Å girl over camp. and i missed him and he said he made Å huge mistake so we got back together. and it got really serous. we where talking about getting married and everything. but i knew we werent getting married and it was all just talk. we broke up because he just wanted to makeout. the next day he asked out my friend. shes gorgeous and me and her are so similar. she was going to say no but i was so over him i told her it was okay. they hooked up and danced Å lot in my face but it was okay i moved on. he was Å jerk. they broke up Å month later and he flirted with another one of my friends and then broke her heart by asking sombody else out from Å different school. i thought he was such Å jerk. then, at synagogue one day i went to say goodbye to one of my friends sitting next to him. when i hugged her goodbye we made eye-contact and it was wierd. i thought about him all day, and after shabbat he texted me. he told me he was different, that he didnt care about hooking up anymore. we kept talking and flirting and i started liking him again. we got back together. we started talking more, having serous conversations about heaven and hell, and about god and nature and i was shocked that he was so deep. after going out with him twice i was suprised to know that i didnt really know him. he wanted such Å serous relationship but i asked him to tone it down because i didnt want anything so serous. i dont like him as Å boyfriend, but i love him as Å person to talk to. he has really intresting opinions about things. and hes not afriad to do stupid things or have Å good time. i love that about him. but i feel like i can have Å better time with my friends when hes not around. when its just me and him, one on one im so comftorble but if its all of us, i need to be with my friends because we cant be serous that way. like i only like him when wert serous, and not when its light. im Å half serous and half shallow type of person, so i have no idea what to do. is that like love? or. well. i have no idea. do i stay with him? id appreciate anything. your opinion on any part of it. thank you so so much for reading this! i know its Å mile long!
love always
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well i think he is trying to change for you, by being deep...but he seems like a flirt, a big one, and it seems like he'll do it again. i think its puppy love, if it IS any kind of love. if this was pretty much meant to be, youd be yourself around your friends and everyone when youre with him. youre only 13 and you have plenty of time to find true love, let him be your friend only...or if you dont like my answer, put your mind and heart together, heck sort it out on paper if you have to.
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