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Seeing him again


Question Posted Friday May 25 2007, 12:14 am

I'll try to make this as short as possible, I already wrote it once but my cat went under the computer and stepped on the power switch. So I have to start over.

Me: 9th grade next year/HS
Jon: 8th grade next year/MS

My mom hardly lets me go anywhere with my friends, and when I do someones parent has to be there. She also hates the people I hang out with. They're punk/rockers and she thinks they're strange. She told me I couldn't hang out with them before which pissed me off, because they're my friends.

My friend Shelly, who is in 7th grade this year has a friend named Jon. I met him when I went to the mall with Shelly, Hannah, Jeremy, and Crishelle. (My mom thought that it was just me and Shelly. It was on the last day of school, after school.)

Michelle didn't tell me but we met up with other people too. Jon, Cody, Dominic and Scott.

Michelle intorduced us since he was in seventh grade and I had never talked to him before. I knew the other people who were in 7th grade because they're in my chorus class.

Me and Jon ended up hanging out by ourselves for an hour because everyone wanted to go somewhere different. We just wanted to walk around. So we did, and we talked and flirted and everything. Then we went to meet up with the rest of the group to eat.

When it was time to go, Jon hugged me goodbye and said "See you around" We had to go meet my mom because she didn't know who we were with, and if she did find out she wouldn't like it.

What I want to know is how can I see him again. It was the last day of school. I don't want his/my friends arranging it so we go to the mall the at same time, because he'll find out. They can't keep secrets worth a shit. The only people who I trust are Hannah and Shelly and they don't believe I like him. I told then but they laughed it off because he's not the type I usually date.

How can I see him again without making it too obvious that I or someone else arranged it?

How can I arrange it? Or how can I convince someone else to while sounding casual. (Like hey, why dont we invite Jon) but sounding like I don't really want him there that badly. Which I do.

I still don't know him that well, and I won't get to know him unless we can hang out over the summer.

How can I keep in ouch with him over the summer when I won't see him at all.

The only thing I know for sure is that we have some fo the same friends. What should I do?

Thanks to anyone who answers. I really need help.



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CharmingAshlie answered Friday May 25 2007, 3:18 pm:
say to your friends who arranged it that you had such fun, and say how boring summer is going to be if your each on your own; talk about ways you can make summer fun, then bring up the idea of all of you guys hanging out again, like going to the mall again, or going to the cinema etc etc.

hope you have a fun summer

charming ashlie

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