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do i actually give a shit?
theres this person i dont really know if i can call her a freind now because for some reason i have no idea why ... i just stopped likeing her :S its the most embarrasing shit ever but the story goes a little like this:
her parents are going to move to austraila and she has to go (i live some were far away from there but as my name says i like to stay annon-ymous in case anyone i know reads this) so, as you can tell i was upset. Its now been about 3 months and while the sad feelings for the news have worn off and now my feelings for our freindship have gone too. its gone from awesome freinds to dull, then to nothingness, now i just dont wonna see her hear her and i just dont like her has any one else had this? or heard of this? or is this my way of trying to not feel so bad about her nearing departure which now i think should come tommorow rather than 2 months away wtf has happend :S i dont like it but for some reason its done and i dont think i'm gonna change at least soon but that could be too late by the time i do
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I know what you're talking about.
You're doing the exact same thing that I have done in the past--you're distancing yourself from someone you're close to in order to save all the pain it may cause. You don't want to see your friend go and you're afraid that if you let yourself or her get clsoer to you than she already is now, you're going to be hurt. You feel like you have to distance yourself from her so that when she leaves, you won't feel anything bad.
The truth is, you need to break that barrier. Get yourself to enjoy the remaining time with her because if you don't do it now, you're not likely going to get a second chance and you WILL regret distancing yourself from her. Because after she leaves, you're going to realize that what you've done was stupid and regret it a whole lot. Just spend more time with her and enjoy it while it lasts
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