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no guts
im an outgoing, crazy, funny girl....i always help people and show love and care......
over all, people like my personality and like me for it....
i give great advice to people...
except i cant use it on myself....
i really like this guy and the normal outgoing me wouldj ust call someone up and be like HEY WHATS UP!? and talk or whatever but, as an example...lets say you were calling up a celebrity...your favorit one...you would be more concious of what youre saying and more nervous and stuff right
the thing is...i know this kid will love the real me and the outgoing, crazy, "HEY WHATS UP LOSERRR!? WHAT DID YOU DO TODAY!?" self...but i just cant find the guts to call him or talk to him......
i like him and he likes me but i think he gets upset that i dont call him that much then in person i can be all awesome and great...
im not a big phone person....ive always been scared of awkward silences and that im too boring......
i WANNA call him a lot and show him im thinking about him and i care about him but im always nervous hes with friends and ill be tongue twisted in what to say or how to end it if hes with friends or what to talk about ...idk...im a mess
but the funny thing is...i know if i called him and just was myself and how i am with my friends and stuff, hed love it and itd make him feel great that i called and i wanna talk to him and im thinking about him adn stuff.......
i just dont know whats wrong with me....im so nervous and self concious and i have NO gutss what so ever
i just dont know what to do....i feel not worthy or good enough for him....
inside, im that girl that hed love more than anything....i just cant bring it out.......
HELP!
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This may sound strange; but why do you have to call him? why dont you email him instead? if your nervous you can spend as long as you want re-writting. Why not sms him? again, you can spend ages re-writting!!
Why does he not call you?
These questions arent to confuse, but to give you some perspective; its not going to be the be all, and end all of a relationship if you are too nervous at this stage in the game to call him.
You need to encourage more time in person with him; maybe if you are calling with the specific idea of inviting him over, or arranging a trip into town with mutual friends (at first) then you wont be so tongue tied?
time spent in person is a lot better than awkward phone calls...
I hope you get your guy
Charming Ashlie xx
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Maybe you're a little insecure and that's why you are so outgoing with friends. You're comfortable with them and can be yourself, but with someone that you want to impress, you revert back to insecurities.
Don't be.
If you can be fun and be yourself, and know you are a loving and caring person as you said, outgoing and crazy, then don't worry about not being that way with him.
You are who you are regardless of who you're interacting with.
It's normal to be insecure, shyer and self-conscious with someone you like in the beginning. Everyone is to some extent.
Try finding topics you have in common to talk about, music and bands, new songs, places, fun stuff, friends, school, anything. Whatever you talk about with your friends is the same with him.
Pick up the phone and call him. Be yourself and crazy. It sounds even better over the phone because you won't come off shy or boring at all.
Just have confidence in yourself as you expressed in this question and you'll be just fine!
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