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Question Posted Monday May 21 2007, 9:47 pm

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okay, so i'm definitely going to say no to him, but what EXACTLY should i say so i don't come off as a rude, insincere bitch? i mean honestly, i want him to get the point. so i want to say something like:

look, we've already been through this... i really don't feel that way about you right now. i'm sorry but i can't go with you.

i am getting SO annoyed with this guy!


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yarmica answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 6:36 pm:
hun you already know what to do! truth like surgery hurts you knw......

as for what to say just say what you think you'd want to here if a guy was to let you down in a reverse situation.....


don't be mean just be straight forward.... something along the lines of: hey (name) listen we need to talk (sit him down somewhere..... dont touch hand or anything!!!) i really like you as a friend... but thats just it. i really am flattered and i think your an amazing guy but i really like someone else and right now all i could think of is him i am sure you know how that feels.... you should be with someone who shares mutual feelings and so should i and i don't think "us" is it...
i am sorry.... (the only time you are allowed to be physical- give him a hug and leave)

hope i helped

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