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Jealous Friends?
One of my friends and I hadn't hung out in a while because she wen to a different school so we hung out this weekend and she introduced me to a friend from her new school. Her friend and I exchanged numbers and we've beent texting alot because we just get along really well. My friend kept telling me not to text her when I was at her house, and she's really overprotective and gets jealous easily, so I think she thinks I like her friend more than I do her. And she also thinks that I like hanging out with her sister more than I do her. I've tried to tell her that I prefer her company, and she'll believe it for a while then get jealous again. She basically thinks they're stealing me away.. How do I reassure her that they're not?
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i think you should just flat out tell her. i mean honestly, if she feels that way, then you should be totally direct with her. if she STILL feels that they're stealing you away, i would text / im her more often to hang out so that she knows that you're still there for her.
don't play games with her. like avoid getting into a situation where you get mad at her and TRY to make her jealous. everyone is naturally jealous, and it's normal that she feels that way. just be straightforward & honest with her. just make sure that you call her, even text her asking how she's doing / whats up, she'll feel better than if you just don't get a chance to talk to her for a while cause she went to a different school.
i'm not saying stop talking to her friend, but honestly, if it makes your friend SUPER duper uncomfortable, just cut down on it, you know? imagine being in her shoes. i mean, you can talk to and associate with whoever you want - and she even introDUCED you guys! but don't hold that against her - people make mistakes. so just cut down on texting her friend & suchh. try to avoid talking to her sister as much as possible too, just to make sure she really knows that she has no reason to be jealous.
she'll only be jealous if you give her reasons to be :] just remember that
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