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i feel horrible..yet confused
okay so my friend ryan had a bonfire. So my one friend lets call her rita liked my friend lets call him tom. I also had this guy lets call him mike who liked me. So they were having the guys stay over at the bonfire the girl had to leave so me rita and this other girl went back to the other girls house. Rita told me how much she liked tom and how this was the only guy she felt extremely comfortable with, may i mention they dated before but she broke up with him because she didnt like the way he was acting. WE were planning on sneaking back over to the bonfire well rita's sister was pregnant and was going into labor so she had to leave and go to the hospital. So it left me and the other girl to go back to the bonfire with the guys. WE did there was beer there. I started drinking and goin around kissing people everyone else was drinking too except that other girl. Well tom had a lot to drink around 8 and i had 6ish we ended up in the tent of the guy who liked me hooking up. WE did a lot he fingered me and i gave him a handjob(he made the first move). Then i woke up the next morning and was like did that happen to the other girl and she was like yeah. So Rita found out cuz the other girl told her which i expected would happened since they are best friends. The girl got real pissed and of course i felt horrible all she did was stare at me and make nasty comments at tom. Mike the guy who liked me threatened to beat up tom(mike has a girlfriend). Me and the girl Rita talked it out which went better than i expected. Her and tom are hookin up again. See now i want Mike but i dont know what to do, should i just tell him straight out even though he does have a girlfriend? I am just worried that because of that experience he doesnt have those feelings for me anymore. But on the other hand i feel people completely exaggerated the situation. Do you see an issue with this?
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That was kinda confusing. But, I think I got it, i just may mix up the names a bit, but you'll get it..
ok, that mike kid or whatever, the one who has a girlfriend, i wouldn't say anything if i were you. i mean, if he has a girlfriend, he obviously likes her. and itd just be pointless, and you may make a huge fool of yourself, but telling him you like him. or maybe like, just ask him how serious him and his girlfriend are? and if he doesnt really like her that much, then go for it, tell him.
if you dont think he doesnt have the same feelings for you anymore, then , dont bother. i mean, what do you mean exaggerated the situation how can they make it any worse? i mean that was pretty bad. so i dont know.
i think, id try to move on from this whole intire thing completely, and just put it in your past.
i hope that helped a little.
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