likes to do fake put downs to people all the time and i never know if she's kidding and i'm nothing but nice to her. (if i was to not be her friend anymore it'd kill the both of us) what should i do?
summerGIRL_xo answered Saturday May 19 2007, 12:58 pm: simple solution: talk to her about it.
if she's your friend, she'll understand yuo should be able to talk to her about something that's btohering you. just say, "look, i know you like to joke around, but i don't know if you're kidding some of the time, and it hurts my feelings. so could you not do so many, or make sure i know your kidding, or stop?" or something like that. chances are she doesnt even realize she's doign it. [ summerGIRL_xo's advice column | Ask summerGIRL_xo A Question ]
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