Okay so at our school, we're having a farewell dance yada yada. and afterwards people are having like, afterparties. and so pretty much everyone is invited to one or two. exceeeept me. and i'm so sick of being ignored by people this year and just blending in...and it REALLY sucks not to be invited to any. even my best friends are ditching me to go to them. what should i do? what should i say to them? should i try and find out whos having a party and see if they would invite me? help me amanda =[
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? amandaaxoox answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 11:04 pm: hhmmm, this is tough. do your friends know how you feel about this? try talking to them. and plus, who are you taking pictures with and going to the dance with? if you have friends to do that with, they shouldn't be ditching you afterwards.. it doesn't seem right. If you really felt comfortable i guess you could find out about some parties, but i personally can be self concious and i would feel unwanted and out of place at a party i wasn't originally invited to. even if you don't make plans, don't sweat it - you'll probably be really tired after being on the dance floor all night ;] and you'll want some much needed sleep. It seems like a big deal right now, but when it all comes down to it- this is an 8th grade dance (not assuming, people, i know who wrotee this haha xo) not your senior prom or something major. things will be okay! it's one night without plans. everyone's had that situation beforee. good luck! =] [ amandaaxoox's advice column | Ask amandaaxoox A Question ]
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