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Mr. Popularity. or not.
14/f
okay i moved to a new town last year; and i was nervous about starting a new school but i made a good group of friends quickley. well we got in a very big fight and that all ended.; anyways there was this boy, Dave, well he is always very very sweet to me. but hes not exactly popular. i mean this sounds horrible but i think it would make more people make fun of me. i dont know if i can handle more of that in this school. so do i go for the kid who treats me really really nicely. or ignore him because he is a loser to everyone else? he doesnt have many friends but he is somewhat close with my old friends. i feel bad if i say no and please if your gonna tell me to not listen to what other people say could you give me some things to do to not listen? im really bad with stress [im a cutter of four years]. please and thanks.
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im a cutter of 5 years and stress realy bothers me too...if he treats you nicely and you like him then you should go for him if someone doesnt like your decisions tell them to fuck off and leave you alone thats what i would do ive done it before and no one fucks with me...stand up for yourself just dont listen seriously dont listen
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"Love the people who treat you right, forget the ones who don't."
in 10 years will you regret geing teased by a few kids that you will never have to see again, or missing out on what could be a really great thing?
don't let this stress you out too much. Kids your age can be really really mean believe me i know, but you shouldn't let them influence what choices you make in your life. The only person you have to listen to is yourself, and if you really listen close, you'll realize the answer was there all along.
i hope i helped and i hope everything works out!
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Well, it is VERY immature (not to mention typical for a 14 year old) to classify people & worry about what other people think. Who cares if the public does not approve of him? You are not living for anyone but yourself. If he meets your approval & treats you very nicely, then that's all that should matter.
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