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lovee trianglee :/
hey lovess.
i have an issuee with a love triangle.
bob [friend] <3 me.... me <3 sam [crush].
bob is a really sweet guy and all, but it seems like after he told me he liked me, he's always hanging around me and becoming really clingy. he always complains that i never talk to him anymore, which is false, but it is true that i am trying to create space between him and i because i feel like i need it.
i really want to be with sam. i flirt with him & everything, but i can't just tell him i like him because it would be awkward.
should i continue keeping space between bob & i? should i tell bob i like sam... but won't bob be heartbroken that i like his friend [bob & sam are friends] ? what should i do?
sorry it's so long, babess!
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Well, you don't have to tell Bob about Sam, but you should probably tell him that you don't feel that way about him. You don't want to string him along, with him thinking that it could happen. No, you gotta be honest with him. You don't have to keep distancing yourself, but make sure he understands.
Now for Sam. Well, if it would be awkward for you to tell him how you feel, maybe you just need to spend more time with him- so that you're more comfortable and confident around him, you know?
As for them being friends, there's really nothing you can do about that. I honestly think that you should still go for it if you really want him.
Good luck!
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