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phobia?
is there a phobia or something where you don't want things in your vagina? i don't want a penis, fingers, or anything in mine. i can't even put my own in there, or even a tampon. my boyfriend is starting to think its him, but its really not, its me. i'm very confident, so its not because of insecurity. whats wrong with me?
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I don't think it's because you're gay. Lesbians also put things in their vaginas.
It's a normal feeling that teenage girls get and it's just because you know that's what is expected someday - for your vagina to have things inside it, but you're not emotionally ready for it yet. It's normal and it's just part of being a teen. I felt that way myself when I was your age.
If you can't stand the thought of even a tampon inside you, then just use pads. Your boyfriend will have to come to terms with the fact that you're just not ready for that kind of sex. If you both agree, you can still have kissing, touching, and possibly even clitoral orgasms when you're ready. And someday you'll probably be ready for vaginal intercourse. Just give it a couple of years. I can see you're only 15 now and you have a lot of time to become ready.
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I don't think it's a phobia. Nothing is wrong with you. Maybe you just don't want to touch it, or anythign else, because you think it's gross, or scary, or something might happen. There are like alot of people in the world. imagine how many people are like that.
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