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my sister blackmails me
i have no idea where to start. she keeps blackmailing me. and hinting to my parents that oh i dnt want to be like her . or me tunr into her. or her lieing (sarcasticly) puft never... and stuff like that. she and i have been sen to bording school and since we live together i have no way of getting away with anything. i don't neccessarly do anything wrong but it isn't exactly what my parents expect and would like me to do. i only went out dancing at a club once and the rest of time i hang out with frnds mostly for almost all the day and then i get back. the only problem is that i have a cerfue and its not fair (its at 4pm rite after school's dun) and i am not allowed to take activities afterwards.... but all my teachers see potential in me (i am a straight A student with a few glitches here and there) and the cover up for me wen i join the schools math club or bio lab club afterwards. i also do art and i write so after that i hang out with my friends for pizza and soda and then get home at about 8 9 or 10 max on weekdays... on weekends at 10 or 11 and only about 3 times at 12..... my parents would go crazy and send me back to my old public school i am doing really well here and my chances to get in anywhere are high.... the only problem is my sadist moralistic hermit of a sister keeps annoying me about it. she makes my parents doubt what i do... and its not that she says but its the way she says things...... she keeps saying dnt ask me i dnt want to get into it... i don't knw... nothing (sarcasticly) or oh i can't wait till she goes away or graduates... or even "r you just twisting the truth about that" so everyone looks at me funny.... my parents have a diffrent culture and they don' accept the mingling of the sexes or anything beyond the ppl they knw... and its really hard. i was so misrable before because i am usually a very social person now..... i feel happy i found myself.... and if she tells them i am really in trouble... its her word against mine and its both ways a loose loose situation....... her words weigh more (since they knw she is rude and dsnt socialize) and if she dsnt i have to stick at home and prove that i don't go out. but i am sure she'll say sooner or later... i know my sister. so what do i do to be prepared.... do i lie?!
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I think you should get to your parents first. Go to them and tell them that your sister has been hassling you and has been making you seem like a bad guy. Assure them that you are doing nothing wrong. Tell them how well you are doing in your school. If you do some chores around the house for free, they'll respect you more because they'll thing you are more responsible. If that doesn't work then just get used to it and hopefully your parents wont punish you in any way if your sister tells them something.
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