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canceling plans?


Question Posted Saturday May 12 2007, 3:11 pm


whenever i make plans with my best friend, i'll leave my computer for a little bit and then her away message will be like "out with some friends then sleeping at "jenna's" house. it gets me pissed because i thought WE had plans. she's really nice and we hang out alot but i get sick of her being like "we should chill today" and then she goes and hangs out with other people. don't tell me not to be her best friend because i love her to death and she's like my sister. but i don't know what to do. her phone is never on so i can't get in contact with her. right now she's at the mall with some people when she said to me earlier "i definitely wanna chill with you today" ughh. she usually doesn't do stuff like that but she does it like 20% of the time.

help!


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Additional info, added Saturday May 12 2007, 3:45 pm:
She's a really good kid and I don't think she does it to hurt me. And I've talked to her about it a few times. She'll say sorry and then she doesn't do it again for like a month....

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ductape_n_roses answered Saturday May 12 2007, 6:04 pm:
Well, maybe you should be the one making plans. Make it definite. I know that my friends and I say that we should hang out today or tomorrow or whenever but we never really do anything.

So next time you make the decision to hang out when and where. Don't wait for her to make the plans definite.

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