|
Falling For My Friend [Still]
Basically, it's the friend falling for her best friend...except in this case, I'm a girl and my friend is a girl. I'm bi and not out and she's straight...and a gay rights supporter. I'm 9th grade and she's in 10th grade and I met her less than a year ago. I really like her and I hate to keep things from her. I know that she can keep a secret because we're really close [we literally finish each other's sentences and we find ways to see each other everyday, etc]. I don't know. I sometimes get the feeling that she's bi too but she's a Christian but I don't know if she's a strict one or not. Anyways I don't know if I should tell her or not. I know that she can keep secrets for her life...and she's a major supporter of gay rights like I am. I just don't know whether I should keep this info to myself or tell her b/c I truly hate to keep anything from her and I don't want her to feel like I was using her in one way or anothe rin the future [too long to explain.]
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
you should tell her how you feel. even if she doesnt feel the same or "cant" feel the same all that matters is that she knows. it seems like she will understand and not get freaked out by it. i have a gay friend who i fell for. obviously he didnt like me because well he likes guys but at least he knew and i felt better about telling him. secrets are evil and in the long run can cause a lot of damage to a person. and maybe you never know she could like you too. i say you tell her that way she knows and you dont have to worry about keeping it from her. hope all goes well.
SAM
]
More Questions: |