I recently met this girl(about 3 months ago) and we became good friends. We hang out alot and did things normally friends wouldn't do. She would show me body parts, tease me alot and flirt. I felt she liked me and I felt the same. She knew me and my family and I knew her and her family. Then we she got her car back from her mother, she started to ignore my phone calls and when I am aroiund her place, my siter lives there to, she doesn't speak to me or say hi or nothing. yesterday was my birthday and she came because my sister invited her. She was cool and I had a drink and told her off. She just laugh and gave me the bullshit story, it was her and not me. I feel she played me and probably, though I don't feel this way, used me as her crutch for her problems and to get things. I truly don't feel that way because she changed alot to be with me and now she ignores my phone calls, and pretends I don't exist. So can someone tell me should I really let go and just move on or try to talk to her again and see whats going on.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? owns13927 answered Friday May 11 2007, 9:22 pm: you shouldn't just give up on her, you should see if there really was something gooding on between you two. she could just be going through something or someone told her something and she could just be having a hard time. but, sadly, there is the chance that she was just using you and stuff and nothings really happened to her and she just played you. but don't just think that and walk away. from the sound of it you two really had something. try to find out what is really going on(i would hate myself if i met a near perfect girl and she starting acting weird so i just left her and i don't think you would feel too good either if she is just going through a hard time or going through some ruff changes and you left her. you would be leaving something really good behind and would definitally regret it) just don't jump to conclusions too soon. i hope you find out what's really going on and you two get back to where you were. hope i helped. [ owns13927's advice column | Ask owns13927 A Question ]
blackluna7111 answered Friday May 11 2007, 8:21 pm: i think you should talk to her. see whats going on. it cant hurt, and if she still acts like that then ignore her also, and move on. so what you need to do is talk to her. i mean if you guys were that close and showed eachother body parts then you guys must have been close. so a friednship like that cant just go away that fast. goodluck! [ blackluna7111's advice column | Ask blackluna7111 A Question ]
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