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my (first) boyfriend of 2 days asked me out on a (first) date. i dont want him to "make a move" so should i::
1. tell him that i already had plans with my friends to go to the mall, but he can come and bring friends
2. tell him that my parents wont let me see a movie with him alone, so tell him that i need to bring friends.
3. other
((also, will there still be a chance either way that he'll make a move?))
cause i dont want to have to tell him that im not ready.
im so stressed. HELP!
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Congrats on the new boyfriend!
What I would do in your situation is to suggest to him that it might be more fun for the both of you if you got a bunch of your friends together and went out in a big group. If he really wants to know why, tell him that you're not allowed to go on single dates yet.
There is a possibility that he might try something, but if he does, just nicely let him know that you're really not ready yet, and you want to take time to get to know him better before you go that extra step.
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Just calm down and realize that he's probably just as nervous as you are. If I were you I'd just go to the movies with him. Play by ear you know? I mean if he puts his arm around you, thats nothing its like a hug. and anything further just ask him nicely to stop. He'll listen.
or if you really are losing sleep over this, go on a double date.
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