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troubless i dont like my boyfriend ((that i started going out with yesterday)) as more than a friend. i've figured that out. i always feel akward talking to him, and when i think about him at all, look at his screen name, or talk to him, my stomach hurts. that takes up a lot of time in my day. im not ready to break up with him. he LOVES me. i'd feel way too bad. i also feel like its too soon. but the feeling i get from him makes me feel nervous, and its a bad nerevous. help?
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eek. I think you need to breakup with him, whether you feel bad or not. Put yourself in his shoes. Say he leans in to kiss you, but you don`t want to, and he says why? If you continue to date him, even though you don`t really like him, it`s kind of like you`re leading him on, or teasing him. I know you feel bad, i understand, but again, what if you were in his situation? You could go up to him and say, "Derek, I don`t think this is going to work. I don`t feel comftorable around you and I dont think that`s going to change."
and then if you want you can say, "but we can still be friends."
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hope i helped
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