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Disfunctional
My grandmother and my dad is coming over to the states for my sister's graduation, right in the middle of ap exam week. My parents arent divorced, for some odd reason, even though my mom moved my sis and i to the states, and my dad is still half way across the pacific...my grandmother is always really manipulative...My grandmother and my mom has a lot of 'issues', now since my grandmother is aged and i guess feeling guilty for wrecking havoc on my parent's marraige is trying to make upfor what she did beofre. and lately she seems to be appeasing to my mom. but the last time she did this, 2 years ago, during my summer vacation to Taiwan, where they still live, i ended up getting kicked out of the house for defending my mother against her random accusations that we were stealing the family's money...i have no idea what to do, she is my grandmother but i feel like i can't really trsust her...i dont know her intentions. honestly i dont even want to face her when she comes...she did kick me out of my own house when i was in a foreign country, without pretty much anything. i cant afford to have a nervous breakdown during ap exams. i've worked way to hard to screw up now cause of my awesome family. i am so wrried i'm just going to snap and unleash on them, which has been my stragety as of late whenever i come near family with the exception of my mom and sis...and i cant do taht to my sister on her graduation day. its suppose to be nice and her day. sorry about the long rant. question is just how do i handle the relatives without a mental breakdown, flunking aps, and ruining graduation day for my sis?
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I don't know how much of a help I can be for you but this is my suggestion[s]:
See if you have a friend willing to let you stay at your house while your grandmother is visting. Or any relatives you can go to. Just calmly explain to your mother that you don't think you can stay in the house and explain the situation. Then go to a friend or relative's house and see if you can stay there for a day or two [or however long you need to stay]. Getting my drift? I don't know what else to suggest to you other than to, well, lock yourself in your room. Um, or stay in a public library while your grandmother is over.
Sorry if I wasn't much of a help. Good luck to your situation and AP testing!
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