okay so I just broke up with my boyfrined and i feel horrible! i feel like such a bad person. he was crying and saying "why are you doing this to me?" and stuff like that and i started crying and i feel horrible that i broke his heart. i feel like dying. im such a bad person.
AB1022 answered Tuesday May 8 2007, 1:24 pm: Your not a bad person,if you broke up with him their must have been a good reason. So don't feel horrible about you just grew apart from him, is all. So whatever you don't feel bad. Things happen for a reason [ AB1022's advice column | Ask AB1022 A Question ]
Ashumms answered Monday May 7 2007, 10:05 pm: You are not a bad person. If you had doubts about your relationship with your boyfriend, you owed it to him and yourself to end it. It wasn't fair to either of you for you to stay in the relationship if you didn't have the same feelings for him as you had before. Of course, you feel bad for hurting him because you had feelings for him and you still do, in a way. But it's better to let his heart heal and for him to find someone who wants to be with him and you to find someone you want to be with.
I really hope you believe that you did the right thing for both of you if you weren't feeling IT anymore.
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