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Confused About Him
Okay so my story is; Steven and I had been dating for a year and a Month. We then broke up an decided to go on a break due to him wanting to expierence stuff that I normally wouldn't approve of, For Instance Club and Drinking. Well it had been 5monthes on April 7. He called me around April 14th right after I went to prom and everything with a guy who I had been talking to for 2 Monthes. He told me he wanted another chance, Wanted to prove to me he was sorry an he told my parents his break was over an stuff. So I pretty much risked my entire friendship with the other guy I had been talking to and believed everything Steven told me. Everything was fine we talked everyday an we went out to eat few times. Then this past saturday came and he basically ditched me for his guy friend an stood me up. So I called him an was pretty pissed off, Who wouldnt be. So he said sorry an then yesterday we talked an I was like so is everything over, He was like I dont know its just like some stuff isn't going to change. I guess by me wanting to hang out with him. Then he told me something while we were together one day about moving in once I graduate out of highschool in another yr an I brought it up to him an he said it was just all talk he didn't know what he was saying like he was just b/shittn with me. So I decided I am not gonna call him so I don't make it so hard on him an then maybe when he is ready he will call, He told his parents he want's to work on stuff but he doesn't want me hanging with the guy I went to prom with. So I pretty much feel if everything doesn't workout with Steven I pretty much lost both guy's an it will suck. But I am in love with Steven and would do anything in this world to be with him. And he told me last night like he wants so bad to just say Mackenzie lets just get back together but he can't an he doesn't know why, But he did say in previous monthes he has tried dating an it never worked because he compared everyone to me; Thats a plus! An he has been telling people like his best friend that we might get back together but it's not 100%. So what should I do; What do you all think of this! Your Advice is Greatly Appreciated it. So Thanks for Reading and Answering!!
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From the sounds of things what you both had wasn't a 'break' it was a 'break-up'. There's a difference between the two, at least with me anyway. To me the idea of a break is when two couple are in the need of a time out, to have their own space. In essence - to take a 'break' and just relax and chill fora little while to get their thoughts together but during that time to still be taken and with their partner. So it doesn't mean you candate someone else and such. When you want to take a break from the relationship so you can go out and date others that's a break up.
From everything you've said the only conclusion I've some up with is this guy has no idea what he wants and having you waiting on him is unfair to you and selfish. As for him not wanting you to see this other guy while he decides what he wants - he is in no position to ask you to wait on him to decide what HE wants while you sit around. I know you love him and such and I'm not saying stop because you just can't but I will say don't let him tie you down by the ankles so he can haul you around with him and then come crawling back when (if ever) he decides he knows what he finally wants. You have your own life to live and your own future to think of as well. I think you should carry on with your life and see where it leads. Waiting on this guy might turn out to be a total waste of time.
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