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drama.
okay. today, i had voice lessons, like every sunday. my friends and i just enjoyed, sang, dance in the room. but then everybody else in the room got affected, and they left just to hint to us that we were too noisy. but then we probably still made noise. and some of my friends went outside, and a classmate pushed them out and shut the door. my friend then slapped him in the arm due to anger. then my other friend cried, and the teachers arrived. we all had to reconcile. we heard from both parties. and my group apologized and i even cried. this is the first time i ever got into this kind of trouble, i said to them, and that i wanted the feeling of being accepted in a clique. after class, some people were comforting me, telling me that it's not entirely my fault, that they're not mad at me, that they think i'm influenced by the group. i can't believe this all happened because i'm a quiet girl, who is in a noisy clique.
but now, i dunno what to do. i don't wanna leave the group, because, i don't have any closer friends than them. and if i do stay, i just want to avoid trouble.
what do i do?
katie 13/f
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I know being accepted may seem like the most important thing but there are ways of making them both happy. You have to do what you think is right. If you don't you won't be only hurting yourself but others as well. If they are truly your friends they will accept you no matter what choices you make as a person. A good way to avoiud trouble is if they are doing something that you don't believe don't od it. Take a stand and tell them. If you stand up for yourself then they will understand as well. All of friends drink and smoke while I am the only one who doesn't do it. They pressure me to do it to but I don't believe in it. I took a stand and they understand my beliefs. They know now I won't break them so they just accept me for who I am.
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