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my mom says im suicideal and wear all black everyday I DONT
my mom and i hate eachother we can never even talk with out flipping out. she says im gothic and she says im suicideal and she says i wear all black every single day. I DO NOT I AM NOT. i never even wore ALL black before! IM NOT SUICIDEAL. maybe if she keeps yelling at me everyday for absolutly nothing. yea i might wear a black shirt and BLUE jeans. i dont even wear black eveyday. i tell her i dont and i dont. I DONT TRY TO KILL MY SELF. i know what i wear NOT ALL BLACK EVERY SINGLE DAY NOT EVEN BLACK EVERY DAY! she yells at me every single day for nothing. it makes no sense at all WTF! i dont get her how do i get it through her head. IM NOT SHE DOESNT GET IT. she sees me everyday. i know what i wear and im not suicidael!!!
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Ok, First of all, if your old enough, YOU NEED TO MOVE OUT. there is no reason why your mom should treat you like that. maybe you should try writing her a note explaining how you feel. or talk to her face to face about it. even if she dosent belive you about it, at least YOU know who you are and that your not suicidal or gothic. its more about what YOU think about YOURSELF than what your MOM thinks about you.
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I understand. My parents criticise the way I dress too. For some reason, they tend to impose their ideal fashion sense upon us. The older generation don't seem to like black very much. Because black is associated with funerals, goth and everything dark and gloomy. But to us, it is sleek, cool and it means style.
She is worried. She must've had some crappy discussion with her fellow female friends talking bout teenagers and how common suicide is among us. Oh well, it happens and we do have stereotypical conversation bout them too.
Since it doesn't work out between the two of you with words, then consider proving yourself by action. Strut yourself infront of her when you aren't wearing black.
No point telling her NO MUM I AM NOT THIS..I DON'T WEAR THAT..Defend yourself with an infallible REASON.
She tells you you're suicidal, then ask her, what things other than wearing black makes me suicidal? She accuses you of wearing black everyday; you repeat her qn : E.V.E.R.Y.D.A.Y? I wear black every.single.day? Sometimes, it helps to question them bout the statements that they are making. It makes them think twice bout it.
Suicidal is so much more complicated than just wearing black.
You know you're not suicidal, OK, good enough. What you believe in will show in your actions. You've already told her you're not and your words get jarred in her ears. So? Leave it. You're making yourself angrier by repeating yourself and you're making her feel that you are suicidal from the way you get so worked up. The best way to prove yourself is either by action or by strong reasoning, and not by denying.
And tell her, she'll be the one who'll be making you suicidal if she continues with that nonsensical crap.
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Hey-- the solution is simple.
Research Goth sites on the internet. Save the ones you want to your Favorites...
...then sit down with your mom and show her all the Goth sites so you will educate her on what Goth really is and she will discover you are not one.
Talk to her and tell her you are not suicidal and not into all that crap.
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