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What's wrong with me?!


Question Posted Saturday May 5 2007, 10:23 pm

15/F

There's this guy, and for some reason I can't get over him. I've liked him for over a year, even though I have no reason to, and he's given me a lot reason not to.

He's a total jerk, and can be sexist at times.

My friend told him I liked him and he started rumors that I was stalking him.

He's extremely conceited.

I've only talked to him a couple times. We don't hang out with the same people, but we do have some of the same friends. He's not in any of my classes, and I haven't talked to him in months.

Yet... Whenever he walks past me in the hall I get so excited, and my heart starts beating all fast. And then I can't stop smiling for the next couple of minutes.

I know where he hangs out in the morning before school and at lunch and that's the first place I look every time I walk past that area.

I get so excited every time someone mentions his name. (And then immediately feel like a retard for it.)

What's wrong with me. I'm not saying he's totally horrible, but his cons outnumber his pros. If that even makes sense. When will I get over him? We've only talked a couple of times, before my friend told him that I liked him.

I should hate him, yet I don't as you can tell. I want to hate him, but I can't.

What should I do?



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holahayley56 answered Saturday May 5 2007, 11:38 pm:
I can't really tell you, to stop liking him, you kinda have to do that yourself.

Don't like try to just stop thinking about him completely, because thats way too hard, and you'll find yourself thinking about him and not even realizing it. Try to like someone else. I'm sure there plenty of cute boys in your school. Find one and start liking him. And eventually, you'll forget about the other kid.

I don't think that other kid likes you too much, and usually guys don't really like it, when your friend goes and tells them that you like them. it kinda makes you look bad, like you can't say it for yourself, and then there not sure if you really do or your kidding. it just basically sends alot of mix signals.

i hope that helpedd. (:

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