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Question Posted Saturday May 5 2007, 10:02 pm

hi there.
well here's the thing.
i like this guy, and earlier tonight i found out that he probably likes someboday else. i'm so depressed. i really liked this guy. it seems that everyone i like never likes me back. for once i'd like for the guy i like to like me back. i feel horrible. please help.


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not_your_star34 answered Sunday May 6 2007, 10:21 pm:
First of all, I'm sure that you are an amazing person, with a lot of great things in her future. Don't judge your self-worth based on the opinions of others, whether it's a guy or a girl. You really have to learn to love and accept yourself before you even think about getting in a relationship with someone else.

Are you sure you're giving the guys you like subtle hints to show that you like them? If that's the case, the guy could like you, but just get discouraged because he isn't getting any closure from you. That's a definite possibility.

As for this certain guy... why don't you ask him yourself who he likes? If you heard that from someone else, you never know if his feelings changed or if the person is just plain lying. So you could ask him in casual conversation and see what the real deal is.

If the guy doesn't like you, it's his loss. Just know and remember that you may suffer now, but you'll be so much happier once you meet someone who makes you feel special and who will return your feelings. I know you'll find someone; It may not be now, but he will come.

Keep your options open as well. You may end up dating someone totally unexpected. You never know!

Don't lose hope and don't lower your expectations and standards.

If you have any more questions, feel free to leave another in my inbox!
-Manders

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