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cheater
i was the one who just typed the question cheater.
im falling in love with my boyfriend. and i dont want to break up with him. and i havent yet. things are definitely going to change in our relationship, and everything has to start all over again. do you think im doing the right thing?
all my friends want me to dump his lying, cheating ass. but i just cant bring myself to do it, i dont want to live without him.
so one more chance. and i told him if ANYTHING happens. his ass is out of the picture.
what should i say to him to get him to understand that it is not okay, what he did. and that it hurt me a lot. and that he is the biggest fuck up. i want him to feel incredibly sorry for what he did. which he already does. but im afraid of making it seem like its no big deal. when it is.
i will definitely ask him how he can lie straight to my face and then be all of a sudden falling in love with me.
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Hey there!
I think you are a really kind person to be able to forgive him. I'm not saying that this is wrong, i will encourage you but i can tell that you really do love him. The question is, since you haven't broken up with him, are you happy? Like is everything going well so far in your relationship?
Looking at this from your friends side, they're just trying to protect you from getting hurt again. So ya, i just want you to be careful about this and if this makes you happy then thats all that matters.
You need to talk to him. Always remind him that what he did won't be erased, even though what happened has happened and its in the past. Just let it all out, and tell him how you feel. Everything that you told me, make sure he knows it. Tell him that its a big deal for you and that it hurt you so much but you're forgiving him only becasue you love him and cant live without him. Let him know that you do love him, but it will take time for you to forget what he did, you may never forget what he did.
To fix this up, you guys need to talk more often, spend more time with each other! Both of you need to be honest and always share how you guys feel. Have more dates ;) movies; dinner; dancing..etc anything! hehe
Hope it helped! Thanks for asking me, love to help you out! =) Take care....if theres anything else, please ask! :D id be happy to answer! <3 oh and when you ask him how he can lie to you and then fall inlove with you tell me what he says ^_^ take care! update me! <3
EDIT: this is my reply to your feedback: awwwww!! hehe love helping you out honey! Tell me if you need anything else <3
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