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Obsessed
ok im 13/f and i am in love with Daniel Radclife 9 the guy who plays Harry Potter in the Harry potter films.) now i dont want you to think that this is a teenage crush, because it isnt, im seriously in love with this man.
anyway, i talk about him all the time, and i annoy my friends with him. i take a whole bunch of pictures of him from magazines and glue them onto a big poster board and i just look at him and think about how cute and funny he is. i cant even sleep sometimes because i always think about him. i annoy my family and friends with him and im tired of everyone thinking that all i care about is daniel radcliffe, so how do i stop thinking about him and talking about him all the time? please help me!
Thanks
Shelby
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Actually, you are both correct. The only reason you can "love" him is because you don't know the real him. The fantasy is very powerful and like an addict, you have to do this for yourself, not others. This obsession is runnning your life. It is not good for you. It is preventing you from enjoying friends and family and meeting guys your age and it must stop. You need to get rid of your stuff. Throw it out if you can and at least pack the rest away. Many people have had obsessions, and they don't lead to anything good. You alone have the power to end the obsession because you alone created it. The fantasy can be fun, but that is all it is. Like a helium balloon you feel on top of the world, until you realize that what is keeping you there is a bunch of hot air that won't last...it is time to come down to reality with the rest of us and have some fun that is within reach. You can always keep him on your list of hotties, but that is it. You are too anxious to give your life and heart away to someone that has not earned it and that will lead to trouble unless you accept the fact that real love should always be mutual and equal and based upon friendship. Whether a real guy or fantasy, they are both a waste of time if they give nothing in return for your huge heart.
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You can't possibly love him you've never met him before. Normal teenage obsession. He's cute, yeah.
Find a real guy you actaully know to channel your obsession into. He might even notice you, seeing as you know him and all, and he's not busy riding horses naked.
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Well, my advice is that you should probably find someone real - well, you know, someone who goes to your school and some you know - to obsess over instead. Maybe you'll then forget about Daniel Radcliffe and move on with something that has a real chance. People won't be SO annoyed with you anymore, unless of course you obsess over this guy wayy too much.
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