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what should i do?


Question Posted Thursday May 3 2007, 1:54 pm

im glad that she is still my friend. and i'm trying to get over her but it's hard cause she so close to me, toooo close. it might be in my head but what do you think:

I was siting on the chair, as Victoria came up and sat next to me. Victoria lean her head on my shoulder and with a sigh. she hugs my arm.
when we walk together Victoria embrace my arm and held my hand while leaning her head on my shoulder.

she did this once in a while not all the time, she does it more in front of our friends and when its just us together hanging out she does it sometimes but not alot.

i hate it when she does that and i want to get over her. i just want to push her off but i start to like it and think that she likes me back. It sucks! i hate it! what should i do?


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Faerie answered Thursday May 3 2007, 2:18 pm:
Remind her that she didn't have feelings for you and it's making you confused. Next time she does it, don't push her back, but simply stand up and walk away, face a window or something and look upset - because you are. She'll walk to you and ask what's wrong... I guess then you can tell her.

It might be a good idea that you go away someplace for the summer to clear your mind and stuff...you might meet someone and forget about your friend as 'more than a friend.'

I know it's hard and this isn't the best advice I've given but...my best friend's a bi. She got pissed off when I got a bf. She started acting weird. When I broke up with him, she was the happiest person and got really close to me. I went back to him again and she stopped talking to me.

She still doesn't talk to me.

Maybe find a good time to talk to her. Tell her if she doesn't feel anything towards you, she should stop these acts of hers of hugging you and stuff now that she knows how you feel.

Stay strong.

I'm here for you.

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