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My bi-polar friend
I had a friend, last year. We were pretty close. Now it's like this year we've done a lot of fighting. He'll hit me with a horse whip or try to push me out a window, and I'll respond the same way. I've tried ignoring him, though I want us to be friends agein, I;ve tried talking to him, not reacting, being nice, nothing works, could you help me? I really want my friend back. But then sometime he can be so sweet, he's bi-polar and his medication makes him depressed so he dosn't take it, I don't know what I did to him, but I want things to be like they used to be. We go to a boarding school, so I can't get away from him, everywhere I go (But the girls dorm) it seems like he's always there. So I want to know, how can I refill our gap?
Much love
Willow.
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Have someone with you when at all possible if you know he's going to be somewhere. If you honestly feel like he could majorly hurt you, pepper spray. Sounds extreme but do what you have to. Slowly stop making plans with him, etc- don't ignore him, just act nonchalant (like you don't care- completely monotone). This is a really dangerous situation that you need to get out of ASAP regardless of how "sweet" he can be. He sounds very manipulative and obviously needs better help than what he's getting. If you feel like you should, tell someone, whether it's a strong (preferably male) friend who will help protect you or your school's counselor.Things will not be the way they used to be, most likely ever. You're going to get majorly physically and emotionally hurt unless you do something.
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