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my best friend likes my guy
amanda, i have been friends with this girl for a few years and she's one of my good friends. i love hanging out with her and shes nice and stick's up for me and pretty much a really good friend... but she always takes my guy. not necessarily like my boyfriend and she takes him, but if i like someone she likes him too!! and its not even that she gets him and i dont (sometimes we both dont whatever) but its just the fact that she's liking the same guy as me. i'll tell her i like someone and then a week later she likes him!! she'll be all over him and it really bugs me! wouldn't you be annoyed if your best friend started liking the same guy as you the next week?
what do i do!? please help, i'm desparate!!
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yess, i would be very annoyed, too. who says you have to tell her who you like? better yet, who says you have to tell her the RIGHT person? maybe it sounds a little mean but it really won't hurt anyone.. it will just prove whether your accusations are correct or not. i say you tell her that you like this really weird guy (but he still has to be believable) and see if she likes him next week! if so, maybe it would be best if you stopped telling her who you like until she finds someone of her own. if not, maybe things arent as bad as they seem to you.. you have to try to figure out what she thinks through all of this as well. maybe she isn't thinking in the back of her mind "oh my good friend lieks this guy, that means i definitely should too!" good luck, and i hope you find a way to put an end to this! :]
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