I was talking to my BEST friend we'll call her 'A' and 'A' gave me her friend's cousin's myspace. We will call him 'B'. So I got 'B's screen name and started talking to him. He is a really nice guy and REALLY cute. He is in another state but he's moving here in the summer. 'A' is obsessed with him. She thinks he likes me but I think differently. I sent 'A's picture to 'B' and I had him rate it. He said then that she got a 7. 10 being beautiful, 1 being ugly. Then he asked for my picture and I sent it. 'B' gave me an 8. Now 'A' is sad because she really thinks he likes me not her. Now she gets sad at times and like don't talk when she is normally really up beat girl. I always ask her if she's mad at me and she says no. I really like 'B' too. Sometimes she says, "But ___(my name)____ I knew him first!" And we don't get in fights but I just don't know what to do. 'A' and I both like 'B'. What should I do?
If she likes him, and you like him, then neither of you are to go after him for the simple fact that if you do, the other will get hurt. The both of you need to find someone else to like, and make sure it's not the same person. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
lilmegsoko answered Wednesday May 2 2007, 6:06 pm: Never live to make someone else happy. Maybe it would be best if neither of you went for him. I'll be honest it sounds like he has an interest in you. Her pouting isn't the way to solve the issue. She gave you his myspace, now she is mad at you because he took in an interest in you. Its kind of her own fault. The best advice i can give if you dont want it to effect your friendship is for neither of you to hook up with him. I would also talk to him about it. Ask him what he thinks. Who knows maybe he could help [ lilmegsoko's advice column | Ask lilmegsoko A Question ]
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