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Question Posted Wednesday May 2 2007, 3:40 pm

ok this guy likes me but i only like him as a friend and i feel like now that he's told me he's like constantly, idk, PUSHING the relationship forwards.

well i still want to be friends with him, but i DO like another guy & he knows it (not WHO but that i do).

well i figured that i should make a litttttle space in the relationship. just a tad. like go on the instant messenger every OTHER day, or even every TWO days. you know?

any suggestions?


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christina answered Wednesday May 2 2007, 5:11 pm:
Don't get space without telling him. It'll give him a reason to call you more, bug you more, push the relationship more, and annoy you more.

Just tell him you could use some space for a while so you can think everything in your life over. If he doesn't leave you alone, you need to be a little more harsh to get your point across.

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KaladaLeigh answered Wednesday May 2 2007, 4:38 pm:
there's nothing wrong with putting a little space in between you two.
tell him that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but you only like him as a friend and you don't wanna be anything more. tell him there's plenty of other great girls out there....

I'm in the same spot... there's a guy that totally loves me. we email a bit, but we're not actually friends 'cause I don't like him that much... especially not as a boyfriend...
he's ok with that

tell him you like being friends
nothing more

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