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about 90% of the times when me and my boyfriend have hung out, i have asked him to. this makes me feel like he dosent like me or something like that. we have been dating for 6 months and this has happened the whole 6 months. should i talk to him, if so what should i say?
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He probably doesn't think he NEEDS to, since you're always the one making plans. Talk to him and say, hey I love spending time with you. Could you come up with some ideas for a date sometime? It doesn't have to be extravagant, as long as I'm with you I'll be happy.
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well he is probably not aware of it! you should just talk to him about it. because if you just start to not be the person to hang out anymore, he might be all confused and get angry that you never want to hang out anymore.
just calmly bring it up - "hey, how come i am always the one to initiate a hang-out? we should hang out more often." or something like that. use "i" statements, not "you"s... do not say, "you never ask to hang out anymore." that will only make him upset & angry.
i'm sorry that this happened to you. but if you DO try talking to him about it, and he is not doing anything about it... i might consider the real relationship you have? i mean what's a relationship without two people meeting each other halfway? what if you're always the one to reach out to him & he never reaches to you?
good luck, babe.
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