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Rumors.
So I am in marching band, and I am friends with people from other schools that my band regularly competes against.
I, through MySpace, have been talking to some boys from another school (I'm 15/f), and so I went to go sit with their band yesterday during a festival. The boy's name I sat with was Seth. Seth immediately grabbed my hand and he was tickling me, I was on his lap, etc.
So, he is not friends with another member of his band, Riley. In fact, he harbored rumors about Riley and my best friend, Laraine, hooking up, even though both are currently taken. However, Seth was totally sweet to me and I like him now.
The thing is, though, I told Rily and Laraine that I wouldn't talk to Seth anymore, but he just imed me to tell me how much fun he had talking to me yesterday, and he apologized to me for the whole rumor thing.
I don't know exactly what I'm asking, but people have warned me about this guy. However, he makes me happy when I talk to him, and I'm also friends with this best friend.
Oh, and he might be gay. According to Riley, he came out of the closet and then went back into the closet in high school.
So, what do you think I should do?
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Ok well first off Riley prolly just said he was gay to spread a rumor like he did to her.
You obviusly like him so dont just ignore it, explain to your friends how happy he makes you and if they are real friends they will understand. Tell Seth not to apoligize to you about the rumors- apoligize to Rily and Laraine. Im sure if he does apoligize to them they will relize what a good person he is and feel better about you two being together
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You shouldnt of told your friends you werent going to talk to him because if they see that you do, they're going to be mad that you went back on your word. However, they dont control what you do and who you talk to. It sounds strange that he came out and went back into the closet. He probably did it for attention or a joke. But maybe Riley said it to spread a rumor about Seth just like Seth spread a rumor about Riley, you never really know. The thing is, people can lie about other people. People may warn you about him, but that doesnt mean you shouldnt give him a chance, just keep your eyes open and dont believe everything you hear. Goodluck:)
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