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follow up to my previous question
well unfortunetly prom was yesterday, we didn't go together. any way i saw him there and i was kinda dirty dancing w my friends not really though. it was a bunch of girls and all of a sudden i see someone standing behind me and i turned and it was him! i think he was like dancing with me. later that night one of my friends told me he's had a crush on another girl since like 7th grade. how do i know if thats true, or how can i tell if he for sure likes me, we only really talk during track, and a little outside of it. thanks so much!
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I'm so sorry I had not gotten back to you sooner. This week has been nuts for me. odds are he was trying to dance with you but it doesn't mean anything unfortunately because guys dance with friends, classmates etc and it doesn't have to mean they are attracted to you.
While he may have had a crush on a girl since the 7th grade it doesn't mean he still does and plans to pursue it. He would have tried that by now. She might not be in to him either as surely she knows of these feelings by now.
What's a girl to do? We guys make it tough on you I'm afraid. I would try inviting him to parties, movies with friends, bowling etc where there's a group of people going and see if he accepts your invitations.
If he doesn't you can bet he's not in to you and you don't make a fool out of yourself by approaching him and asking him out and then have it all over school that he turned you down. This tests the waters and instantly shows you where his head is at and if you're on his radar screen.
The other thing you can do is approach him and mention the classes you take with him and that you wondered if you could be friends and talk online. If he's not interested in being friends or talking online than you know to move on.
Some girls are pretty brave and decide to go for broke and ask a guy out. I would only attempt this if you really don't think rejection would affect you at all and that you couldn't give a darn what anyone might say or tease you about later.
Sometimes if a girl wants a guy as her boyfriend and he's blind to this and flirting you have to dive into the deep end and swim.
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