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Trying to get over her.
I am a 20/F
I am trying my best to get over her, i had a crush on my best friend forever and i still do. 3 years ago in high school, i told her (Jane) about my deepest feelings to her i explane to her that "i dont understand these feelings but i do like you." she was surpized of what i said to her, and she still sat there with me and listen. the next day at school i ask her why did she seem okay of how i felt, she didnt responed to me, so i simpley ignor it.
Those 3 years went by and we are still great friends and hang out mostly every week. i got over her but to me it seems like she doesnt want me to.
Jane been flirting with me (i flirt back), leaning on me, try to hold my hand, and teases with me. she even told me she been ask out by 3 different guys but trun them all down. i dont know if its me but i think she remember the talk we had and when i try to ignor my feelings she seem to always try to grab my attention to her. now my feelings came back and now i'm more nerious and clumsy around her, she laughs at it and i feel embassed. she is driving me crazy, people tell me we are ignoring our feelings and i think they are right. Every time i try to ask her if she likes me i froze and talk about something elus,i dont know. is she showing me how she feels or am i thinking she does?
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The only way you can tell for sure is if you just sit her down and ask her. And if you think you're going to freeze up just think about what you really want to say to her and what you want to know. If you really want to know, you'll ge over the nervousness and you'll just ask her. She may be trying to get your attention because once she found out you liked her and then noticed you were stopping she didn't want the attention to be on someone else aside from her, or she may like you back. But like I said, the only way you can know for sure is to just ask her about it.
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