why does it hurt to have sex, many of my friends have said it hurts like hell for them durning the frist few times, will it be the same for me, and what can i do to help it not hurt?
The best way for you to reduce the amount of (possible) pain is to use a water based lubricant (even if you use a lubricated condom, add more lubricant) and go at it slowly.
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