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Asking guys out
So, I'm 18 (and a girl). I like a 25 year old guy, and there's a pretty good possibility he likes me back. But the thing is, we see each other often. I dogsit for him sometimes, train his dog, and he's sort of my boss (if he needs help he asks me [he owns his own business]). So, if he says no, there isn't really time to avoid him. Should I start with something casual, like lunch or bowling? Just go all out and ask if he wants to see a movie or whatever?
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age is just a number, 'sweetie'.
Tina doesnt understand. She's 12.
If you dont ask him, you will never know! Dont sit around and wait for thigns to happen. seize the day. Good luck 'sweetie'
hope it works out
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Sweetie, he's 7 yrs your senior. Who cares if you're an adult or not, that's disgusting. I wouldn't advise dating this man.
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I would suggest a softly, softly approach with this. He may have another life away from work and dogs that you don't really know about. Try starting with a cup of coffee in a bar or a drink after work to help with a "problem" that may have occurred somewhere. Taking him out of the office situation may help him to open up a bit. Once you have established there is no significant other around you could suggest catching a movie together or just a quick bite to eat. If he seems reluctant to talk about his private life or doesn't seem interested in going or for a coffee or something, he may just see you as an employee. With this approach it is easier to pull back from, and retain the friendship that you have. Good luck.
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