A long time ago my friend went out with a guy and she broke up with him because she didn't like him anymore. A few months later he and I started hanging out and we kissed. I didn't know how to tell my friend so I didn't because I didn't think it was going to turn into much. Then it got kind of serious and we were seeing each other heaps going out to dinner and sleeping at each others houses and I ended up losing my virginity to him, and the whole thing is still unbeknown to my friend. I found out that after late nights out and stuff when she had no where to stay she would stay at his house and they would hook up but claimed it meant nothing more than a place to stay. I know it means more to him...I guess the whole reason to this question is I don't know what to do and I feel like such a whore for letting him have sex with me! any help would be appreciated
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ImHere2MakeAdifference answered Tuesday April 24 2007, 12:18 pm: So He isant your boyfriend? He is your benficial friend, Don't feel like a whore because your not your not sleeping around with a bunch of different guys, so your fine. Tell your friend, she wont be mad she has nothing to be mad about because thats not her boyfriend anymore. Tell him how you feel about the whole sistuation and tell him its weird and mabey he will stop, if not for get him, you could do so much better, don't let him bring you down and don't let him use you. Your probly saying ( i dont) but you may not even relize you are letting him take advantage of you. If he really wants to be with you for are not what you do with him, he will be. So I hope I helped you out
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