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was this girl talk?
(i like my friend more than a friend and she knows cause i told her about it two years ago.)
last month she called me and told me that our friend Bobby called her and ask her out. i ask if she likes him back and she said "well i do love him as a brother and care for him..." i told her "well if you like him more than a friend you wouldnt call me." she said "good point"
i told her the differents of liking someone more as a friend and as a friend.
she understood, but i dont understand why would she call me and ask or say what to do.
i mean if a guy or girl ask you out and you dont like them you will tell them right? i mean yeah you can think about if you do but why call your friend and ask for advice?
i told her that it is up to her of what she wants, but i know she does like him more than a friend. she and i care for him well but i dont see them together and i told her that. i even told her that i was jealous about it when he ask her. she didnt say much but she began to flirt to me. and still does.
was it girl talk?
or
whay would she call me?
FYI: I'm 20/f who is bi.
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You probly already knoe this but dont relize you do because you are in the situation. Girls love when other people love them and are always there no matter what. and she probly see's you as a friend who likes her and because you liked her so long she knows you will be there no matter what.. she is holding on to you, you understand what im saying. if she goes out with this guy and something happens and they break up, she knows you will be there still. NO MAtter What, she will flirt with you, so you dont lose interest. N i hate saying this but, from what you told me in the question, I think she using you as a back up plan. When all fails she has you, n i hate saying that but that what it seems like, but don't be her back up plan. Tell her how you feel, say ok I like you, do you like me. If not don't hold on to me anymore, let me go, don't flirt with if you dont want to be serious. Thats all you have to do, and then move on with your life and still stay friends.. I hope I helped you
-------Melanie
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