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I got a problem. No one else but me in my entire family can extend our families gene legency. There's the district possibility that my genes may be gone completely from this planet if I do not get married, and have children, so it's important I do. As well as that, my father would really like to live to see his grand children, and he's starting to get old.
Well I have never even dated a girl before or even in the least hugged one. All the girls I know have boy friends, and they're in pretty committed relationships. I know I'm young, and still got a way to go, but going by everyone else's trends things are looking pretty horrible to me. The process of having a relationship, getting married, and then finally having kids could easily be a 10 year long process, and my dead could be on his death bed by the time.
Well am I over reacting by worrying, or does this sound like a bad situation?
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It's easy to worry about things like this, but it isn't a bad situation. Even though your Father is aging he may live to a ripe old age. Yes relationships do take time to deepen and mature into marriage and children but don't speed up the process by choosing the wrong person. Sometimes little problems can get blown out of all proportion and you need to step back a bit to see a clearer picture. Just start the process off by meeting girls who have a similar outlook to yourself and who enjoy the same activities you do. It will happen for you, and everything that is meant to be will be. I wish you well.
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Aww!! How cute!! >.< hehe =P Well anyone would be worrying if they were in your shoes! Don't worry about your relationships. You just need to get to know more girls. Go out and meet them, trust me there are many out there.
The process of having a relationship and getting married then getting children is a bit long, but whatever happens happens. You can't change your dads time. You just have to hope and pray that he'll live long enough to see them. The situtaion isn't in your hands. You simply can't control it. The right time will come for you to meet your future wife (hehe love that term 'future wife') and hopefully you will have a family, weather your dad is still alive at that time or not (hope he is) you still can't control it. =( it's sad...but i hope things end up in a good way for you and your dad! I don't know if that helps...i hope it did!! Wish you all the best! Take care...Best of luck!! =D
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