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cheating?


Question Posted Sunday April 22 2007, 8:53 pm

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 years. And i think hes cheating on me but i dont know. He never wants to go anywhere let alone do anything such as prom i had to beg him to go with me. He never wants to do anything duriing the week or on the weekends. I cant remember the last time we went out. But he always has time to go out with his friends, Everytime hes sopposibly out with his friends i call he doesnt answer. Such as tongiht i called him like 20 times and he finally called me back and told me he was at his grandmothers. Not to sound crazy but how many grandmothers are let alone awake up on a sunday at 8:30? I mean my grandmother goes to sleep around 6. And his sister told me he never came home from work. He neveer went to work though?? I dont get it. He never calls everytime i call him its like im a bother he'll tell me ill call you back and never calls back.? Everytime i ask to see his phone he hides it and wont even let me look at it. A few weeks ago i saw some girl texted him and said this is my new number and so but why would she texted him with her new number if he never had her old number? that i knew about atleast. Whats going on some one helpp

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katie_babey answered Monday April 23 2007, 10:38 am:
hey im sorry to say it but it sounds like hes cheating on you. When you are going out with someone they want to be with you all the time but still would like to be with their friends too. If hes not answering your phone calls then that usually means hes with someone else and doesnt want you to kno and doesnt want the other chick to kno that he has a gf. If he wasnt cheating on you then im sure he woulda had no problem giving you his phone to look at. THat means hes hiding something from you. I would try talking to him about it or find somethings out from his friends or soemthing. You need to go with your gut feeling its always right. Ok well i hope everythin works out for you and im sorry about all of this. hang in there!
-katelyn

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AskJR answered Monday April 23 2007, 9:53 am:
Wake up and smell the coffee.

A woman's instinct is always right.

Trust in it. Trust your gut.

Dump him, he's cheating.

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chakra answered Monday April 23 2007, 8:15 am:
I'm not sure if he's cheating on you, but it deffinatly seems like he has lost interest in you and the relationship.
He doesn't want to go to the prom with you, he never calls you or wants to hang out with you anymore, i'm sorry but i truly believe that your relationship is at an end.
I think the best thing for you to do is talk to him, just ask him whats going on, tell him the facts (what you've said on here), and i think you should end the relationship before he does. That way, you walk away with some dignity.

*Also, he could have been lying about being with his grandma, but not because it was 8:30. I don't know if you meant morning or night, but alot of grandmas are up at that time, my grandma is nearly 80 and she goes to bed at 11pm and is up between 5am and 7am.

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Sw33tKiss3s answered Monday April 23 2007, 8:09 am:
Well, this does sound a lot like hes cheating...
If he's very secrative with his cell phone and where he goes on the weekends and stuff then those are some signs. You just need to talk to him and seriously say that if you want wour relationship to go any farther than he has got to stop hiding things from you and tell you the truth.
hope i helped a little bit:]
-JENN
[[good luck!]]

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