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bff and ex bf
my best friend is dating my ex, the guy that i have and will always have feelings for. i have always avoided the feelings cuz me and my ex and my bff always hung out. over the past year we have all three become inseparatable. well i told my bff that i liked my ex, and she said she did too. now they are dating, but i know he still cares about me. and he knows i still do for him, but my bff has always been there for me adn i with her. but when he tells me he loves me and will always love me, i feel good but bad at the same time. i want to tell my bff that he does this. but that may break them up and she loves him too. he loves her he says, but not around me. i don't know what to do. do i tell my bff adn loose my ex who is also my bff. or keep it secret and tell him to stop? and how do i prevent the feelings, by the way i have had a bf for the past year and love him, but still have lingering feelings for this ex, do i tell my bf? i know its a complicated ? but please help
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In a perfect world I would say tell your friend, band together and loose the ex, because he is playing you both in a nasty and selfish way.
Think of it. He has two girls smitten over him (you don’t need to tell him your feelings hun, he already knows) and he can lead them both on, say sweet things to them both, flirt with them both and never get in any trouble because he KNOWS that they are too afraid to talk to each other about it because it might ruin their friendship.
He gets all the attention and flattery he wants, and the ego boost knowing he could have either of you and you ladies get nothing but stress and fear!
He is holding your friendship with your best friend hostage, and that is plain out wrong. He shouldn’t be saying things like that to you. Nice guys don’t tease and lead girls on like that. Nice guys don’t tell another girl they love them when they have girlfriend. This guy is not nice! He is being selfish and ruining your life!
If you can’t tell you friend, and I understand why you would be afraid too, tell this boy to back off! Next time he flirts or says inappropriate things to you tell him the truth: That he is a jerk who is betraying his girlfriend by saying things like that and since his girlfriend is your best friend, you are going to put up with it!
I know you still have feelings for him, but he is using those feelings and he doesn’t deserve them. Tell him to stop and then get some distance from him, that’s the only thing that will help you feel better.
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