|
My boyfriend for over a year is hardly a friend now.
So i'm the kind of girl when i was younger fell for older guys and everything they said..and i learned the hard way with those expierences. One of my boyfriends went to prison and so when we broke up it was really easy for me to get over that..because i never got to talk to him, see him, anything! so it was really simple for me. But when i was just a jr i started liking a sophmore, i took things nice and slow with him cause i had learned from past that would be probably be better. We got together a couple weeks after hanging out and dating. We had our ups and downs we weren't to serious at the beginning. As summer came we got really serious. We hung out every day we loved eachother so much, we did everything together went golfing bowling boating swimming typical things couples do when in love. and 8 months into our relationship we had sex. it was perfect. He didn't take my virginity but i took his. But i made sure it was what he wanted before we did anything. After that we were even more closer and even more in love..it seemed to perfect but it was reality so it was even better. we kept having sex for about 2 months then decided to stop cause he wanted to become clean so he could go on a mission..LDS thing. it lasted for a month. then we kept having sex after. everything was great. but then sex became everything to him not so much me. he broke up with me a month and a half ago. I was the one who had the harder time with it. he is fine..moved on likes another girl. but i can't get my mind off of him.. whY? why is it that i was his first love..but he can forget about me so easily? But i have the harder time..?
Sorry so long. but its hard to sum up a relationship of over a year!
--thanks:]
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
He might be having a harder time then you think. I don't think it's ever paticularly easy to move on from a relationship of over a year. It sounds like he's trying to get over you by moving onto another girl. Really, it all depends how much he put into the relationship and how much you did (physically and emotionally). Some people also hold onto things a lot longer and find it hard to let go, others easily toss things away when their done with it. It might also be easier for him to let go because it was his first love, and as he matured, he just grew out of it. It doesn't matter why, it just matters that you are okay. It's fine to take your time to move on, but don't let this hold you back. Take it step by step and slowly you'll find yourself letting go. It's deffinitely good to get back in the dating world, but not to fast. It may seem hard now, but I promise, it will get easier.
-Abby
]
More Questions: |