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popular kids
ok so im kind of torn right now. i started a new school this year and i made a lot of friends but they're all in different cliques. when one girl asked me to sit with her at an assembly, i couldnt because she sat with all of the popular kids who im scared of. i want to be popular but im not obnoxious so it seems like im boring when im with them. what can i do?
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well if you want to be popular you should but not obnoxious ,you should tell your friend that you want to hang out with her but not all of the time. Sometimes you can do your own thing you know and be a leader not a follower
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Don't be scared to be friends with anybody. Hang out with who ever you want to hang out with, and become friends with whoever. Seems pretty general, but its your choice. If you wan to hang out with that girl and her popular friends, be yourself, don't be scared. Just because they are "popular" does not mean that they aren't nice people. What I'm getting at is be yourself, do not be fake, and do not ever think people are "too popular" to be friends with.
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Just be yourself dont worry as much as if they like you or not. if you dont like the whole idea of sitting with them then sit with someone your more comfortable with. but i dont think your friend would ask you to sit with her if she really didnt mean it. so its your choice but just be yourself and youll be fine.
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