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love handles...
I'm only 14 and I think I'm fat... well, I didn't really think about it that much until my boyfriend started mentioning it all the time. He won't, well, rarely takes me out to eat anymore. If we do go out I have to get a veggie delite at subway. And he only lets me get a 6 inch. then I tell him I wish I had (at least) another 6 in... nevermind... So yeah, i think my problem is more with him than my weight, what do you think?
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I agree with you, your boyfriend seems to be more down on you, than you would be on yourself, soley.
This is not right, your boyfriend should not be treating you this way. It certainly isn't the way you deserve to be treated. In fact, no one deserves to be treated the way your boyfriend is treating you.
If your boyfriend liked/loved you, he wouldn't be saying even the smallest thing about your weight. People who love and care about each other, don't care what the other person weighs. It shouldn't matter to him at all, if he really cares about you.
I would talk to him first, and let him know how you're feeling. That you don't deserve to be treated this way, and that he should like/love you no matter what you weigh. Listen to what he has to say, then make your decison. If you want my opinion, I would break-up with him. And if not that, give him only one more chance and then, it's over if he doesn't come through.
I just hate to know that you're being treated this way, it's terrible. I'm sure you're not fat, nor am I a fan of that word. I believe young girls and women are beautiful no matter what their weight. I wish you nothing but the best of luck!
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